I'm reading some Donald miller right now and he's talking about a time in his life when he lived with 4 or 5 hipies and he said that he felt more love there than he had ever felt with any of his christian friends,love as in they respected and studied other points of view and other people before deciding there points of view and judging based upon that view.They showed love to those who had completely different opinions than themselves.Donald miller said that alot of the churches that he visited over the years have had major problems with judgment and not showing love to those with differint opinions and views than any of his hippy friends have ever had.I'm not saying that most churches are like that I'm just saying that most people are.